Yes a 5ft boom would be reasonable for a 10ft machine.
The tail weight is little use in balancing the machine about the yaw axis. As soon as it furls the balance goes completely wrong unless you add several heavy and unnecessary balance weights in strange places. The tower will be able to support the unbalanced load.
The tail weight acts through the inclined hinge angle to act much the same as a spring to keep the tail assembly rigid up to furling point, from that point onwards the tail vane stays anchored down wind but the thrust acting on the alternator offset rotates the prop away from the wind.
Area of the tail vane is not that important as long as it is big enough to effectively anchor the vane down wind against the force trying to turn the machine out of the wind.
If the tail is too small then it needs to run at a large angle to the wind to balance the force. However big you make it it will always run at some angle as there is no force on the vane until the wind hits it at an angle.
Unfortunately changing the size of the vane alters its weight and if you choose a certain tail hinge angle such as 20deg you may not have a large range of vane size available while keeping the weight about right.
Just look at the machines on Otherpower to get an idea of the vane size for your 10ft machine, assuming that you make the vane from plywood. If you use a lighter material you may need to add some weight. I wouldn't want to use thicker or heavier material as it will be too heavy with a sensible size of vane.Too much weight raises furling speed and the stator gets too hot.
Flux